Don't be surprised if you found yourself still struggling with same sex attraction.
Same sex attraction is an attraction in us towards same sex as the name indicated, we can choose not to fall into it. We have people that we do admire, we shouldn't deny our admiration over someone, but we are to learn how to admire someone with a pure motive not in any lustful way or allow it to be lustful.
God created us as totally human, unlike robots that He controls us by pressing the 'right' button on us. We have our
own free will to choose whether to fall into sin or we seek help and avoid sinning.
Same sex attraction ISN"T a sin....
Same sex attraction is a temptation.....
When we give in to same sex attraction and we have committed physical sins with that person, then we are sinning.
If we noticed we have same sex attraction towards someone, we are trying our best to resist falling into that person, then we are actually not sinning, we are indeed trying to do what's wrong with our strengths, we might be failing ourselves with our own strength, we are to seek help from our spiritual mentors, we are to seek for counselling perhaps or talk to those we trust and ask them to intercede our struggles for us.....
So be clear and sound mind, that you are not sinning, you are simply struggling like many other Christians. We struggle with that issue, others struggle with other issues also. You are never alone, you are not by yourself in the struggle. There are many who are struggling with same sex struggle too, so take heart.....don't be despised just because you are struggling with it.
It is not a sin...You are not sinning....if you are wrestling on the inside of you, trying to behave, trying to avoid things from happening......Look up and seek God's help.....ask your friends to intercede for your struggle......seek help!!!!!!
Don't condemn yourselves too much, don't be too hard on yourselves.....relax in the embrace of our Heavenly Father, He is ever so loving to you, He will come and help you.....You are only going through a trial.......
You might find yourselves falling into that person...she/he could be very dear to you, you admire him/her so much....the feeling seems so real to you...hang on there......ask God and pray to God for help.
He created you to be a female or male.....you know that He created you for a reason...you know in Genesis that God created only men and women....He never said that He created some to be homosexuals.....be clear of that...trust what God said in Genesis......rest in Him. Perhaps through your trial and struggle, you will draw ever closer to God than you ever will before.....be encouraged therefore you are indeed not alone in this.