And I started to change the way I see my dad, that was from the Holy Spirit, that the Holy Spirit helped me to be able to see him as a new person. I started to realize he acted that way towards me is because he does not know God, he does not know the right way to love his children, he just does not know how to do it. So, why do I need to hate him for that? I pondered this in my heart, and I realized that, as a Christian myself, I do need to learn to forgive and love.
So sisters.....please do allow yourself to forgive...once you are willing to forgive, you will be relieved, not just a temporary one, but it can set you free from the past, and move on with a great assurance - you are able to overcome your struggle, and that's the very first step to do - FORGIVE THOSE WHO SINNED AGAINST YOU. I myself can testify that, it works for me!